The words of Marc Anthony, “If you do what you love, you’ll never work a day in your life,” rang true after the completion of my first one-hundred mile bike ride. I had recently developed a passion for all things cycling, a hobby I was shocked to find so invigorating. I had not ridden in years, because I detested riding up steep hills and I feared falling down. Despite all this, I decided to try biking again. I did not know then, but this decision would change my life. At first, cycling taught me to challenge my limitations, persevere, and face my fears. It was not until later that I realized the opportunity I had created and the profound impact it would have on my future.

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            With its beautiful views and open countryside, Upstate New York is revered as a hub for cycling. Many people in the area love to go biking, so it was no surprise to discover organized rides. I was spending time with my sister in Ithaca when she happened upon a slip of paper that would change everything. It was a flier for the AIDS Ride for Life, a charity bike ride for AIDS prevention and treatment. This gave me a chance to give back to my community before I leave for college. The one-hundred mile ride, a day-long journey, was not the only challenge. Each rider was responsible for raising money for the cause. Fundraising was not an easy task for me because asking for money, no matter the cause, is stressful. I felt that my requests at the first few houses were awkward and onerous, until I realized that this is what it is like to be an adult. It dawned on me that the difference between youth and maturity is overcoming any difficulties with confidence while adapting and persevering in order to succeed.

I will never forget the catharsis I experienced during the opening ceremony of the ride. There was a symbolic rider-less bicycle that represented those who died fighting AIDS, a somber way to begin but important to the ride. I thought to myself, “I’m going to ride one-hundred miles, suffer physically and test my limits, and yet all this is nothing compared to what others must endure.” Contemplating this, and with pre-ride nerves stemming from not knowing anyone, I began the journey. That day I learned several life lessons, and it turned out the social challenges were not complete. In the beginning I rode alone among many unfamiliar faces. I had to reach out of my comfort zone to make new connections and find a team. We looked out for each other, and I discovered how strong a friendship can be and how important it is to support others and to be supported. We faced many difficulties along the way. It rained for seventy miles and we stopped for many flat tires -- I had three. Though frustrated with my misfortune, I refused to get discouraged and thus persevered. This was a great experience and it redefined who I am. My ride will always be a cherished memory, because it changed my outlook on society and showed me the root of happiness: helping others through doing what you love.

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          This truth, made apparent through my experience, will always remain with me. Reaching out to help others is always worth the time and effort. I can transform my passions into unforgettable experiences, and it is true what they say… do what you love and you will never work a day in your life.